You can’t have 2 bosses with equal say but overlapping responsibilities. One person has to be in charge, if both are in charge they must have separate responsibilities.

I am lucky in that I am in charge, my wife helps with some of the admin but has zero say in how I conduct my business. She can suggest things but I have the final say. My wife is in charge of all domestic matters, therefore the title of Domestic Manager, But I am in charge of all the big decisions and my business.

Adrian I still think you should get a PA, your PA not your wife’s. This will take allot of pressure of you and resolve much of the conflict borne out of both of you running the business together. I have said this before, the cost of employing a PA will be small compared to how much more work you can get done – more work more bucks