Quote Originally Posted by Justloadit View Post
get an attorney involved now
Absolutely agree.

Under the circumstances, I suggest the following -
Report the accident at a police station and obtain the report number.
Obtain 3 quotes to repair the vehicle.
Obtain the services of a lawyer.

The fact that the owner won't give you her insurance details is not an issue - the lawyer will merely proceed directly against the owner.
I'm sure the owner will refer your claim against her to her insurers in double quick time once it arrives.