Hi! Help please!!! I am a new forum member. I returned from a two week holiday to find that I cannot send any messages as it states that my usage value has been reached. I only sent 1 message since I joined and that was to meet and greet! Does one have to pay to use this site? Its a pity as I thought it was a great forum to use and socialise on. Goodbye all! Enjoyed it while I was there - unfortunately only for 1 small message - now the messages are full!